Surah Mujadilah ayat 4 Tafsir Quran 58:4

﴿فَمَن لَّمْ يَجِدْ فَصِيَامُ شَهْرَيْنِ مُتَتَابِعَيْنِ مِن قَبْلِ أَن يَتَمَاسَّا ۖ فَمَن لَّمْ يَسْتَطِعْ فَإِطْعَامُ سِتِّينَ مِسْكِينًا ۚ ذَٰلِكَ لِتُؤْمِنُوا بِاللَّهِ وَرَسُولِهِ ۚ وَتِلْكَ حُدُودُ اللَّهِ ۗ وَلِلْكَافِرِينَ عَذَابٌ أَلِيمٌ﴾
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58:4 And he who does not find [a slave] - then a fast for two months consecutively before they touch one another; and he who is unable - then the feeding of sixty poor persons. That is for you to believe [completely] in Allah and His Messenger; and those are the limits [set by] Allah. And for the disbelievers is a painful punishment.

And he who cannot find the wherewithal to set free a slave then his redemption shall be the fasting of two successive months before they touch one another. And if he is unable to fast then the redemption shall be the feeding of sixty needy persons as an obligation upon him that is before they touch one another understanding the unrestricted prescription as having the same restriction as the restricted one. For every needy person he should give one mudd measure of the principal food of the town. This namely lightening of the atonement is so that you may believe in God and His Messenger. And these namely the rulings mentioned are God’s bounds; and for the rejecters of them there is a painful chastisement.

And he, who does not have the means to do so, will have to fast by way a penitence for two successive months (dawn to sunset) before touching his wife, and if he is unable to fast, he may feed sixty indigent persons with desire and intention of amendment and repentance; this is to make you believe in Allah and His Messenger with hearts impressed with the image of religious and spiritual virtues. These are the limitations imposed by Allah; and those who deny Him shall be destined to suffer a condign punishment

Az-Zihar and the Atonement for It Imam Ahmad recorded that Khuwaylah bint Tha`labah said, "By Allah! Allah sent down the beginning of Surat Al-Mujadilah in connection with me and `Aws bin As-Samit.
He was my husband and had grown old and difficult.
One day, he came to me and I argued with him about something and he said, out of anger, `You are like my mother's back to me.' He went out and sat with some of his people.
Then he came back and wanted to have sexual intercourse with me.
I said, `No, by the One in Whose Hand is the soul of Khuwaylah! You will not have your way with me after you said what you said, until Allah and His Messenger issue judgement about our case.' He wanted to have his way regardless of my choice and I pushed him away from me; he was an old man.' I next went to one of my neighbors and borrowed a garment from her and went to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ.
I told him what happened and kept complaining to him of the ill treatment I received from `Aws.
He said,
«يَاخُوَيْلَةُ، ابْنُ عَمِّكِ شَيْخٌ كَبِيرٌ، فَاتَّقِي اللهَ فِيه»
( O Khuwaylah! Your cousin is an old man, so have Taqwa of Allah regarding him. ) By Allah! Before I departed, parts of the Qur'an were revealed about me.
Allah's Messenger ﷺ felt the hardship upon receiving the revelation as he usually did and then became relieved.
He said to me,
«يَا خُوَيْلَةُ، قَدْ أَنْزَلَ اللهُ فِيكِ وَفِي صَاحِبِكِ قُرْآنًا»
( O Khuwaylah! Allah has revealed something about you and your spouse. ) He recited to me, قَدْ سَمِعَ اللَّهُ قَوْلَ الَّتِى تُجَادِلُكَ فِى زَوْجِهَا وَتَشْتَكِى إِلَى اللَّهِ وَاللَّهُ يَسْمَعُ تَحَاوُرَكُمآ إِنَّ اللَّهَ سَمِيعٌ بَصِيرٌ ( Indeed Allah has heard the statement of her that disputes with you concerning her husband, and complains to Allah.
And Allah hears the argument between you both.
Verily, Allah is All-Hearer, All-Seer. ), until, وَلِلكَـفِرِينَ عَذَابٌ أَلِيمٌ ( And for disbelievers, there is a painful torment. ) He then said to me,
«مُرِيهِ فَلْيُعْتِقْ رَقَبَة»
( Command him to free a slave. ) I said, `O Allah's Messenger! He does not have any to free.' He said,
«فَلْيَصُمْ شَهْرَيْنِ مُتَتَابِعَيْن»
( Let him fast for two consecutive months. ) I said, `By Allah! He is an old man and cannot fast.' He said,
«فَلْيُطْعِمْ سِتِّينَ مِسْكِينًا وَسْقًا مِنْ تَمْر»
( Let him feed sixty poor people a Wasq of dates. ) I said, `O Allah's Messenger! By Allah, he does not have any of that.' He said,
«فَإِنَّا سَنُعِينُهُ بِعَرَقٍ مِنْ تَمْر»
( We will help him with a basket of dates. ) I said, `And I, O Allah's Messenger! I will help him with another.' He said,
«قَدْ أَصَبْتِ وَأَحْسَنْتِ فَاذْهَبِي فَتَصَدَّقِي بِهِ عَنْهُ، ثُمَّ اسْتَوْصِي بِابْنِ عَمِّكِ خَيْرًا»
( You have done a righteously good thing.
So go and give away the dates on his behalf and take care of your cousin. ) I did that."' Abu Dawud also collected this Hadith in the Book of Divorce in his Sunan, according to which her name is Khawlah bint Tha`labah.
She is also known as Khawlah bint Malik bin Tha`labah, and Khuwaylah.
All these are close to each other, and Allah knows best.
This is what is correct about the reason behind revealing this Surah.
Therefore, Allah's statement, الَّذِينَ يُظَـهِرُونَ مِنكُمْ مِّن نِّسَآئِهِمْ ( Those among you who make their wives unlawful to them by Zihar ) refers to Zihar, which is derived from Az-Zahr, meaning, the back.
During the time of Jahiliyyah, when one wanted to declare Zihar towards his wife, he would say, "To me, you are like the back of my mother." That was one way they issued divorce during that time.
Allah allowed this Ummah to pay expiation for this statement and did not render it as a divorce, contrary to the case during the time of Jahiliyyah.
Allah said, مَّا هُنَّ أُمَّهَـتِهِمْ إِنْ أُمَّهَـتُهُمْ إِلاَّ اللاَّئِى وَلَدْنَهُمْ ( they cannot be their mothers.
None can be their mothers except those who gave them birth. ) meaning, when the husband says to his wife that she is like his mother, or the back of his mother etc., she does not become his mother.
Rather his mother is she who gave birth to him.
This is why Allah said, وَإِنَّهُمْ لَيَقُولُونَ مُنكَراً مِّنَ الْقَوْلِ وَزُوراً ( And verily, they utter an ill word and a lie. ) meaning, false and sinful speech, وَإِنَّ اللَّهَ لَعَفُوٌّ غَفُورٌ ( And verily, Allah is Oft-Pardoning, Oft-Forgiving. ) meaning, `what you used to do during the time of Jahiliyyah, and what accidentally slips out of your mouth, unintentionally.' Allah's statement, وَالَّذِينَ يُظَـهِرُونَ مِن نِّسَآئِهِمْ ثُمَّ يَعُودُونَ لِمَا قَالُواْ ( And those who make unlawful to them (their wives ) by Zihar and wish to free themselves from what they uttered,) Ash-Shafi`i said, "It means to keep her for a while after the Zihar, without divorcing her, even though his is able to do so." Ahmad bin Hanbal said, "To return to having sexual relations with her or to merely intend to do so, but only after he pays the expiation mentioned in the Ayah for his statement." It has been quoted from Malik that it is the intention to have sexual relations or to keep her or actually having sexual intercourse.
Sa`id bin Jubayr said that this Ayah, ثُمَّ يَعُودُونَ لِمَا قَالُواْ ( and wish to free themselves from what they uttered, ) meaning, if they want to return to having sexual intercourse which was forbidden between them.
Al-Hasan Al-Basri said that it is to utilize her sexual organ, and he did not see any harm in doing what is less than that before paying the expiation.
`Ali bin Abi Talhah reported from Ibn `Abbas: مِّن قَبْلِ أَن يَتَمَآسَّا ( before they touch each other. ) "The `touching' refers here to sexual intercourse." Similar was said by `Ata', Az-Zuhri, Qatadah and Muqatil bin Hayyan.
Az-Zuhri added, "He is not to kiss or touch her until he pays the expiation." The Sunan compilers recorded from `Ikrimah, from Ibn `Abbas that a man said, "O Allah's Messenger! I pronounced Zihar on my wife, but then had sexual intercourse with her before I paid the expiation." The Messenger ﷺ said,
«مَا حَمَلَكَ عَلى ذَلِكَ يَرْحَمُكَ الله»
( May Allah grant you His mercy, what made you do that ) He said, "I saw the adornment she was wearing shining in the moon's light." The Prophet said,
«فَلَا تَقْرَبْهَا حَتْى تَفْعَلَ مَا أَمَرَكَ اللهُ عَزَّ وَجَل»
( Then do not touch her until you do what Allah the Exalted and Most Honored has ordered you to do. ) At-Tirmidhi said, "Hasan Gharib Sahih." Abu Dawud and An-Nasa'i also recorded it.
Allah said, فَتَحْرِيرُ رَقَبَةٍ ( (the penalty ) in that case is the freeing of a slave) indicating the necessity of freeing a slave before they touch each other.
This Ayah mentions any slave, not only believing servants as in the case of the expiation for ( unintentional ) killing, ذَلِكُمْ تُوعَظُونَ بِهِ ( That is an admonition to you. ) meaning, a warning to threaten you in this case. وَاللَّهُ بِمَا تَعْمَلُونَ خَبِيرٌ ( And Allah is All-Aware of what you do. ) meaning, He is All-Knower in what brings you benefit.
Allah's statement, فَمَن لَّمْ يَجِدْ فَصِيَامُ شَهْرَيْنِ مُتَتَابِعَيْنِ مِن قَبْلِ أَن يَتَمَآسَّا فَمَن لَّمْ يَسْتَطِعْ فَإِطْعَامُ سِتِّينَ مِسْكِيناً ( And he who finds not must fast two successive months before they both touch each other.
And he who is unable to do so, should feed sixty of the poor. ) is explained by the Hadiths that prescribe these punishments in this order, just as in the Hadith collected in the Two Sahihs about the man who had sexual intercourse with his wife during the day, in Ramadan.
Allah said, ذَلِكَ لِتُؤْمِنُواْ بِاللَّهِ وَرَسُولِهِ ( That is in order that you may have perfect faith in Allah and His Messenger. ) meaning, `We legislated this punishment so that you acquire this trait,' وَتِلْكَ حُدُودُ اللَّهِ ( These are the limits set by Allah. ) meaning, the things that He has forbidden, so do not transgress them, وَلِلكَـفِرِينَ عَذَابٌ أَلِيمٌ ( And for disbelievers, there is a painful torment. ) meaning, those who do not believe and do not abide by the rulings of Islamic legislation should never think they will be saved from the torment.
Rather theirs will be a painful torment in this life and the Hereafter.

(58:4) And he who does not find a slave (to free), shall fast for two months consecutively before they may touch each other; and he who is unable to do so shall feed sixty needy people. *11 All this is in order that you may truly believe in Allah and His Messenger. *12 These are the bounds set by Allah; and a grievous chastisement awaits the unbelievers. *13

And he who does not find [a meaning

*11) This is the Divine commandment in respect of zihar.
The following arc the details of the law that the Jurists of Islam have derived from the words of this verse, the judgements of the Holy Messenger of Allah ( upon whom be Allah's peace and blessings ) and the general principles of Islam.

( 1 ) This law of zahir abrogates the Arabian custom of ignorance according to which the marriage contract stood annulled and the woman became permanently forbidden to the husband.
Likewise, this law annuls all those laws and customs which regard zihar as a meaningless custom, which is of no legal effect, and permit man to continue having marital relations with his wife as usual even after having compared her to his mother and other prohibited relations.
For in the sight of Islam the sanctity of the mother and other prohibited relations is not such an ordinary thing that a man may even think of the comparison between them and his wife, not W speak of uttering it with the tongue.
Between the two extremes the position adopted by the Islamic law in this regard is based on three principles: ( a ) That the marriage contract is not annulled by zihar, but the woman continues to be the hasban's wife as usual, ( b ) that the woman becomes only temporarily prohibited to the man by zihar, and ( c ) that this prohibition operates till the time that the husband makes the expiation, and that the expiation only can remove the prohibition
( 2 ) As for the person pronouncing zihar, it is agreed that the zihar of that husband is only reliable, who is of sound mind and mature age and pronounces the words of zihar in his right senses; the ,zihar of the child or of the insane person is not reliable.
Moreover, the zihar of the person who might not be in his right senses at the time of pronouncing its words is also not reliable, e.g.
if he mutters words during sleep, or is senseless, due to any reason.
However, the jurists have differed on the following points:
( a ) About -the person who pronounces zihar in the state of intoxication a great majority of them including the four Imams have given the verdict that since he has intentionally used the intoxicant, his zihar, like his divorce, will be regarded as valid legally, for he has undergone this state deliberately.
However, if he has taken a medicine on account of illness and has been intoxicated, or has been compelled to take wine in intense thirst in order to save life, his zihar and divorce pronounced in that state will not be enforced.
This very view is held by the Hanafis and the Shafe`is and the Hanbalis and the same also was the view commonly held by the Companions of the Holy Prophet.
Contrary to it, Hadrat `Uthman held the view that the zihar and divorce pronounced in the state of intoxication are not reliable.
Imam Tahawi and Karkhi from among the Hanafis hold this view as preferable and a statement of Imam Shafa' i also supports it.
According to the MalikIs the zihar pronounced in the state of intoxication will be reliable in case the person concerned has not wholly lost his senses, but talks sensibly and coherently and knows what he is saying.

( b ) According to Imam Abu Hanifah and Imam Malik, only the zihar of the husband who is a Muslim is reliable.
These injunctions do not apply to the non-Muslim subjects of the Islamic state, for the Qur'anic words: Alladhina yazahiruna minkum: " those from among you who put away their wives by zihar, have been addressed to the Muslims, and the fasting, which is one of the three kinds of the expiations prescribed in the Qur'an, obviously cannot be applicable to the non-Muslim subjects.
According to Imam Shafe`i and Imam Ahmad, these injunctions will be applicable both to the Muslims and to the non-Muslims; however, there is no fasting for the non-Muslim subject: he may only free a slave or feed 60 poor.

( c ) Can a woman also, like a man, pronounce zihar? For instance will it be zihar if she says to her husband: `You are'for me as my father, or I am for you like your mother? " The four Imams say that this is not ,zihar and , the legal injunctions of zihar do not apply to it at all.
For the Qur'an in express words has laid down these injunctions in respect of the cases , where the husbands pronounce zihar on their wives, and the authority to pronounce zihar, can be held only by him who holds the authority to pronounce divorce.
Just as the Shari'ah not given the woman the power to divorce the husband, so also it has not given her the power to make her own self unlawful to her husband.
This same is the view of Sufyan Thauri, Ishaq bin Rahawaiyh, Abu Thaur and Laith bin Sa'd.
They regard such a pronouncement by a woman as meaningless and without effect Imam Abu Yusuf.
says that though this is not ,zihar, it will entail for the woman the atonement of the oath, for the pronouncement of such words by the woman means that she has sworn not to have marital relations with her husband.
This same is the view of Imam Ahmad bin Hanbal as cited by Ibn Qadamah.
Imam Auza'i says that if before marriage the woman said that if she marred a particular man he would be for her as her father, it would be .zihar, and if she says such a thing after marriage it would be in the nature of an oath, which would entail the atonement for the oath.
Contrary to it, Hasan Basri, Zuhri, Ibrahim Nakha'i and Hasan bin Ziyad Lu'lu'i say that this is zihar and will entail the expiation prescribed for zihar by the woman; however, the woman will not have the right to prevent the husband from coming in to her before making the expiation.
Ibrahim Nakha`i has cited this incident in support of this view.
Mus'ab, son of Hadrat Zubair, sent a proposal of marriage to 'A'ishah bint Talhah.
She turned down the proposal, saying: " If I marred him, he would be for me as the back of my father ( huwa `alayya ka-zahr-i abi ).
" After some time, she became willing to marry him.
When the jurists of Madinah were asked for their ruling on it, many jurists including several Companions of the Holy Prophet ruled that 'A'ishah would have to make an expiation for the zihar.
After citing this incident Ibrahim Nakha'i has expressed his own opinion, saying that if 'A'ishah had said this thing after the marriage it would not have entailed the expiation.
But since she said this before marriage when she had the option to marry, or not to marry, the expiation became obligatory on her.

( 3 ) The excuse of a sensible and mature person, who pronounces the express words of zihar in his full senses, cannot be acceptable that he uttered the words in a state of anger, or in jest, or in lout, or that he had no intention of the zihar.
However, in respect of the.words which are not express in this regard, and which can give different meanings, the injunction will vary according to their nature.
Below we shall tell what words of zihar arc express and what words are not express.

( 4 ) It is agreed upon by all that zihar can be pronounced on the woman who is a wedded wife of the man.
However, there is a difference of opinion whether zihar can be pronounced on the other woman also or not.
In this matter, the following are the different viewpoints:
The Hanafis say that if a man says to the other woman: " If I marry you, you will be for me as the back of my mother, " then whenever he marries her, he will not be allowed to touch her without first making the expiation.
This same is the verdict of Hadrat 'Umar.
During his caliphate a man said such words to a woman and afterwards married her.
Hadrat 'Umar ruled that he would have to make the expiation for the zihar.

The Malikis and the Hanbalis also have expressed the same opinion, and they add this to it: If the woman was not specified, but the man said words to the effect that all women were for him like that, then whichever woman he married, he would have to make the expiation before touching her.
The same is the opinion of Sa'id bin al-Musayyab, 'Urwah bin Zubair, 'Ata' bin Abi Rabah, Hasan Basri and Ishaq bin Rahawaiyh.

The Shafe'is say that zihar before marriage is meaningless.
Ibn 'Abbas and Qatadah also hold the same opinion.

( 5 ) Can zihar be pronounced for a fixed term? The Hanafis and the Shafe`is say that if a man has pronounced zihar for a certain period of time, he will have to make the expiation if he touches the wife before the expiry of that time; however, the zihar will become ineffective when the time has elapsed.
Its argument is the incident concerning Salamah bin Sakhr Bayadi, who had pronounced zihar upon his wifc for the month of Ramadan, and the Holy Prophet ( upon whom be Allah's peace ) did not tell him that the fixation of the time limit was meaningless.
On the contrary, Imam Malik and Ibn Abi Laila say that whenever zihar is pronounced it will be for ever and the specification of time will be of no effect, for the prohibition that has occurred cannot become void of its own accord on the expiry of the time.

( 6 ) If the zihar is conditional, expiation will become incumbent whenever the condition is violated.
For instance, if a man says to his wife: " If I enter the houses you will be to me as the back of my mother, " then whenever he enters his house, it will be unlawful for him to touch his wife without first making-the expiation.

( 7 ) In case the words of zihar, arc repeated several times to a wifc, the Hanafis ant the Shafe`is say that whether this is done in one sitting or in several sittings, it will entail as many expiations as the number of the times the word were repeated, unless the man might have repeated the words only to stress what he had said before.
Contrary to this, Imam Malik and lmam Ahmad bin Hanbal say that no matter how often the wards are repeated, it will entail only one expiation.
The same is the view of Sha`bi, Ta'us, `Ata` bin Abi Rabah Hasan Basri and Auza`i ( may Allah show mercy to all of them ).
Hadrat 'All's ruling is that if the repetition is made in one sitting, there will be only one expiation, and if in different sittings, then there will be as many expiations as the number of the sittings in which the repetition was made.
The same is the view of Qatadah ant 'Amr bin Dinar.

( 8 ) If zihar is pronounced upon two or more wives simultaneously in one and the same set of words, e.g.
if addressing them the husband says: 'You are to me as the back of my mother," the Hanafis and the Shafe`is say that separate expiations will have to be made to make each of them lawful.
The same is the opinion of Hadrat `Umar, Hadrat `Ali, `Urwah bin Zubair, Ta'us, `Ata, Hasan Basri, Ibrahim Nakha`i, Sufyan Thauri and Ibn Shihab Zuhri.
Imam Malik and Imam Ahmad say that in this case one and the same expiation will suffice for all.
Rabi`ah, Auza`i, Ishaq bin Riihawaiyh and Abu Thaur also have expressed the same opinion.

( 9 ) It is agreed upon by all that if a man repeats ,zihar, again after making expiation for it once, the wife will not be lawful to him unless he makes another expiation
( 10 ) Although it is sinful, according to the four Imams, to establish marital relations with the wife before malting the expiation, and the man should ask for Allah's forgiveness for it, and should refrain from repeating such a thing, yet it will entail only one expiation.
The Holy Prophet ( upon whom be Allah's peace ) had exhorted the people who had committed such an offence in his time to implore Allah for forgiveness and not to touch the wife unless they had made the expiation, but he did not enjoin any additional expiation besides the expiation for zihar Hadrat `Amr bin `As, Qabisah bin Dhu'aib, Sa'id bin Jubair, Zuhri and Qatadah say that it will entail two expiations, and Hasan Basri and Ibrahim Nakha'i have given the opinion that this will entail three expiations, Probably the Ahadith in which the Holy Prophet gave his ruling on this matter did not reach these scholars.

( 11 ) As to comparison of the wife to whom would be zihar, the jurists have expressed different views:
'Amir Sha'bi says that her comparison to the mother only is zihar, and the Zahiriyyah say that her comparison only to the mother's back is zihar, for the injunction dces not supply to anything else.
No section of the Islamic jurists, however; agrees with them in this regard, for the reason given by the Qur'an of the wife's comparison to the mother being sinful is that it is absurd and a lie.
Now, obviously comparison of the wife to the women whose sanctity is just like the mother's would be as absurd as it is in the case of the mother Therefore, there is no reason why the commandment in that case should not be the same as in the can of the comparison to the mother.

The Hanafis say that in this command are included all those women, who are permanently prohibited to man on the basis of lineage, fosterage, or marital relationship, but the women who may only be temporarily prohibited and can become lawful at any time, are not included in this, e.g.
the wife's sister, her maternal and paternal aunts, or another woman, who is not the men's wedded wife.
It will be zihar if comparison is made with such a part of the permanently prohibited woman's body as is forbidden for men to look at.
However, it will not be ,zihar if comparison is made of the wife's hand, foot, head, hair, tooth, etc.
to the back of a permanently prohibited woman, or of the wife to her head, hand, foot, etc.
for it is not unlawful to look at these parts of the mother's or sister's body.
Likewise, to say to the wife: "Your hand is like my mother's hand, or your foot is like my mother's foot," is not zihar.

The Shafe`is say that in this command are included only those women, who were, and are, permanently prohibited, i.e.
mother, sister, daughter etc.
but this does not include those women, who may have been lawful at some time, e.g..
the foster-mother, foster-sister, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, or those who may become lawful at nay time, e.g.
the wife's the wife's sister.
Apart from these temporarily prohibited women, it will be zihar to compare the wife to such parts of the permanently prohibited woman's body as are not normally mentioned out of reverence and respect, As for those parts which are mentioned out of reverence and respect, it will be zihar to make a comparison with them only in case this is done with the intention of zihar; for instance, if a man says to his wife: "Your are to me like my mother's eye or life, or like my mother's hand, foot or belly," or he compares the wife's belly, or breast, with the mother's belly, or breast, or says that the wife's head, back or hand is to him as his mother, " it will be zihar if said with the intention of zihar and reverence if said with the intention of reverence.

The Malikis say that to compare the wife to any of the prohibited women is zihar.
so much so that even if a man says to his wife, " You are to me like the back of such and such other woman, " it.
would be zihar .
Furthermore, they say that it would be zihar to compare any part of the mother's body, or of an eternally prohibited woman's body, to the wife, or to any part of the wife's body, without any condition that the parts thus compared be such as may look at any part of the mother's body as he looks at the wife's.

The Hanbalis include in this command all those women, who may be eternally prohibited, though they may have been lawful before, e.g.
the mother-in law, or foster-mother.
As for the women who may become lawful at any time later ( e.g.
the wife's sister ), Imam Ahmad's one statement concerning them is that comparison to them is not zihar .
Moreover, according to the Hanbalis to compare any part of the wife's body to any part of the prohibited woman's comes under ,zihar.
However, the non-permanent parts like the hair, nails, teeth, etc.
are excluded from this command.
( 12 ) 'The jurists are agreed that to say w the wife: " You are to me like the back of my mother, " is expressly zihar, for the Arabs used this very formula for zihar, and the Qur'anic command also was sent down only concerning this.
However, the jurists have disputed as to which of the other words are such as clearly come under zihar, and which are such whose amounting or not amounting to zihar will be dependent upon the speake's intention.

With the Hanafis the express words of zihar are those in which a lawful woman ( the wife ) may have been clearly compared to an unlawful woman ( i.e.
any woman from among the eternally prohibited women ), or compared to such part of the body which is forbidden for a man to look at, like saying: " You are to me like the belly or the thigh of my mother, or of such and such prohibited woman.
" Apart from these, the other words are disputed.
According to Imam Abu Hanifah, if the man says: " You are forbidden to me like the back of my mother, " it is expressly zihar, but according to Imams Abu Yusuf and Muhammad it would be zihar if there was the intention of zihar and divorce if there was the intention of divorce, The view generally held by-the Hanafis is that if the man says: " You arc as my mother, or like my mother, " it is zihar if said with the intention of zihar and irrevocable divorce if said with the intention of divorce, and meaningless if there was no such intention at alI However, according to Imam Muhammad this is express zihar.
If the man calls his wife his mother or sister or daughter, it is an absurdity upon which the Holy Prophet ( upon whom be Allah's peace ) had expressed great anger, but he did not regard it as zihar.
If the man says " You are forbidden to me like my mother ", it would be zihar if said with the intention of zihar and divorce if said with the intention of divorce, and zihar if there was no intention at all.
If he says: " You are to me like my mother, or as my mother, " his intention will be questioned: if he said this out of respect and reverence, it would be respect and reverence, if with the intention of divorce, it would be divorce: if there was no intention whatever, it would be meaningless according to Imam Abu Hanifah, but would entail the atonement of the oath, though not of zihar according to Imam Abu Yusuf and would be zihar according to Imam Muhammad.

With the Shafe'is the express words of zihar are that a man should say to his wife: " You are to me, or with me, or for me, like the back of my mother, or you are like the back of my mother, or your body, or your self, is to me like the body or self of my mother.
" Apart from these, in respect of all other words the decision will be dependent on the speaker's intention
According to the Hanbalis, every such word by which a man may have compared his wife, or a part from among the permanent parts of her body, to a prohibited woman, or to a part from among the permanent parts of the prohibited woman's body clearly, would be regarded as express in the matter of zihar
The Malikis' viewpoint also is almost the same.
However, in the details they have given different rulings For instance, according to them, a man's saying to his wife: " You are to me as my mother, or like my mother, " is zihar, if said with the intention, of zihar, divorce if said with the intention of divorce, and zihar if there was no intention at all.
According to the Hanbalis, it may be regarded only as ,zihar provided there was the intention.
If a man says to his wife: " You are my mother, " this is zIhar according to the MalikIs, but according to the Hanbalis it would be zihar if said in a state of anger on account of a quarrel, and it would not be zihar if it was said out of lout and affection, although it is wrong.
If a man says: " You have divorce on you: you are like my mother, " according to the Hanbalis this is divorce, not zihar, and if he says: " You arc like my mother: you have divorce on you, " both ,zihar and divorce will take place.
To say: you are forbidden to me as the back of my mother," is zihar according to both the Malikis and the Hanbalis, whether the words were said with the intention of divorce, or without any intention.

In this discussion about the words of zihar one should clearly understand that aII the disputes of the jurists in this regard relate to the words and usage of the Arabic language.
Obviously the people who speak other languages will neither pronounce zihar in Arabic nor will utter an exact and accurate translation of the Arabic words and sentences at the time they pronounce zihar.
Therefore, if one has to decide whether a word or a sentence comes under the definition of zihar, or not, one should not examine it from the point of view of its being an exact translation of the words given by the jurists, but one should only see whether the speaker had compared his wife in the sexual context clearly to any of the women in the prohibited degrees, or whether there was the probability of other meanings also in his words.
Its most conspicuous example is the Arabic sentence itself about which all the jurists and commentators are agreed that this very sentence was used for zihar in Arabic, i.e.
Ant-i alayya ka-zahr-i ummi( "You are to me like the back of my mother" ).
Probably in no other language of the world can the man pronouncing zihar use words that may be a literal translation of this Arabic sentence.
However, he can certainly use words of his own language, which may have precisely the same meaning for which an Arab used this sentence.
The meaning of this sentence was: "To have sexual intercourse" with you would be like having sexual intercourse with my mother, " or as some foolish person might say to his wife: " If I come in to you, I would be going in to my mother. "
( 13 ) In the Holy Qur'an what has been mentioned as entailing the expiation is not the mere zihar but one's and ( returning ) after the zihar.
That is, if a man only pronounces the zihar and dces not `return" , he dces not incur any expiation.
Now, the question is: What is this and {returning) that entails the expiation? In this regard, the jurists have held the following viewpoints:
The Hanafis say that and is the intention to have the sexual intercourse, but it does not mean that the mere intention should entail the expiation; so much so that the man may have to make the expiation even if he does not take any practical step after the intention.
But its correct meaning is that the man who wishes to remove the prohibition that he had imposed on him by by pronouncing zihar of severing marital relations with his wife, should first make the expiation, for this prohibition cannot be removed without the expiation.

Three statements have been cited from Imam Malik in this regard, but his most well known and authentic statement, according to the MalikIs, is in full agreement with the Hanafi view point, as stated above.
He says that what the man had made unlawful for himself by ,zihar was the sexual relation with his wife.
Now, and means that he should return to establish the same relation with her.

Imam Ahmad bin Hanbal's view as cited by Ibn Qadamah is almost the same as of the two Imams as noted above.
He says that after the zihar expiation has necessarily to be made to make the sexual intercourse law ful.
The man who wants to make it lawful after having pronounced zihar, in fact, wants to return from the prohibition.
Therefore, ho has been enjoined to make the expiation before making it lawful for himself, precisely like the man who wants to make the other woman lawful for himself and has to marry her before she could be law ful for him.

Imam Shafe`is viewpoint is quite different.
He says that a man's keeping his wife as usual and detaining her in wedlock as before after having pronounced zihar, is aud, for as soon as he pronounced zihar he in fact, forbade himself to keep her as wife.
Therefore, if he did not divorce her immediately on pronouncing zihar and kept her back for so long that he could utter the words of divorce, he committed and and the expiation became incumbent upon him.
This means that if after pronouncing zIhar the man did not pronounce divorce in the next breath, expiation would become incumbent, whether after wards he might decide not to keep the woman as wife and might have no intention of having marital relations with her.
So much so that even if he divorced his wife after a few moments' thought, according to Imam Shafe`i, he would still have to make the expiation.

( 14 ) The Qur'anic injunction is that the pronounces of zihar must make the expiation before the two ( the husband and the wife ) "touch" each other.
All the four Imams are agreed that according to this verse not only is the sexual intercourse prohibited before the expiation but it is also prohibited that the husband touch the wife in any way.
The Shafe'i's regard' only touching with desist as prohibited.
The Hanbalis regArd every kind of pleasure-seeking as forbidden; and the Malikis regard even casting of the look at the wife's body for the sake of pleasure as unlawful.
According to them only casting of the look at the face and hands is an exception.

( 15 ) If after zihar a man divorces his wife, he cannot touch her without first making the expiation in case it is a revocable divorce.
If it is an irrevocable divorce, and he re-marries her, he still will have to make the expiation before he could touch her.
So much so that even if he has divorced her thrice, and the woman after marrying another man becomes a widow, or is divorced, and then the pronounces of zihar re-marries her, she will not be lawful to him unless he first makes the cxpiation.
For he has forbidden her to himself by comparing her to his mother or other prohibited woman, and.
this prohibition cannot be removed without the expiation.
All the four Imams agree about this.

( 16 ) It is incumbent upon the woman that she should not allow the husband who has pronounced zihar on her to touch her until he makes the expiation.
And since the marital relationship is a right of the woman of which the husband has deprived her by zihar, she can go to the court of law if he does not make the expiation.
The court will compel the husband to make the expiation to remove the barrier ht has raised between himself and her.
And if he does not comply, the court can award him lashes or imprisonment or both.
This also is agreed upon by alI the four schools of law.
However, the difference is that in the Hanafi Fiqh this is the only way out for the woman; if the court does not help her out of the situation, she will remain suspended under zihar indefinitely.
For zihar does not dissolve the marriage contract, it only forbids the husband to have marital relations with the wife.
According to the Malikl school if the husband pronounces .zihar and keeps the wife suspended with a vices to punish her, the law of ila' will be applied against him, which means that he cannot keep her suspended for more than four months.
( For the law of ila, ste E.N.'s 245 to 247 of Al-Baqarah ).
According to the Shafe'is, although in zihar the law of ila' can be applied only if the husband might have pronounced ,zihar for a specific period, which does not exceed four months, yet since according to them the cxpiation becomes incumbent upon the husband from the very moment he keeps back the woman as wife, it is not possible that he may keep her suspended for along period indefinitely.

( 17 ) The express commandment of the Qur'an and the Sunnah is that the first expiation for zihar is to free a slave.
If a man cannot afford this, he can expiate by fasting two months consecutivety; and if he cannot do even this, then he can feed 60 poor.
But if a man cannot expiate in any of the three ways, he will have to wait till he has the means to act in one or the other way, because the Shari'ah has not prescribed any other form of expiation.
However, the sunnah confirms that such a person should be helped out so that he can make the third kind Of the expiation.
The Holy Prophet helped such people out of the public treasury, who were caught in this awkward situation by a mistake of their own, and were helpless to expiate in any of the three prescribed ways.

( 18 ) The Qur'an enjoins to release a neck ( raqabah ) as expiation, which applies both to a male and a female slave, and there is no restriction of the age in it.
It would be sufficient to release a suckling child who may be in the state of slavery.
However, the jurists have disputed whether both the believing and the unbelieving slaves can be released, or whether only the believing slave will have to be released.
the Hanafis and the Zahiriyyah say that it is enough to release a slave, whether a believer or an unbeliever, as cxpiation for zihar for the Qur an only mentions raqabah ( the neck ); it does not say that it has to be a believer.
On the contrary; the Shafe'is, the MalikIs and the Hanbalis impost the condition that it has to be a believing slave.
They have held this iNjunction as analogous to the other expiations in which release of raqabah has been made conditional upon his being a believer.

( 19 ) If the pronouncer of zihar cannot afford to release a slave, the Qur'an enjoins him to fast for two successive months before the two can touch each other.
As for the details of acting on this Divine Command, the viewpoints of the different juristic schools are as follows:
( a ) AII are agreed that the months imply the lunar months.
If fasting is begun with the sighting of the new moon,.one will have to complete two months' un-interrupted fasting.
If fasting is begun on another date in the month, according to the Hanafis and the Hanbalis, one will have to fast for 60 days consecutively; and according to the Shafe'is, one will observe a total of 30 fasts in the first and the third months and observe the whole of the middle lunar month, whether it is of 29 days or 30 days.

( b ) The Hanafis and the Shafe'is say that fasting should be begun at a time when within the next two months there should neither fall the month of Ramadan nor the two `Id days, nor the day of sacrifice, nor the Tashriq days ( 10th to 13th of Dhil-Hajj ) for the observance of the Ramadan fast and its abandonment on the `Id days and the day of Sacrifice ant Tashriq days, in the course of the expiation fasting, would break the succession of the fasting, and the pronouncer of zihar would have to start fasting afresh.
The Hanbalis say that abservance of the Ramadan fast and its abandoment on the forbibben days do not break the succession.

( c ) In the course of the two months whether one abandons a fast on account of a valid excuse, or without a valid excuse, in both cases the succession will break according to the Hanafis and the Shafe`is, and one will have to start fasting afresh.
The same is the opinion of Imam Muhammad Baqir, Ibrahim Nahka`i, Sa'id bin Jubair, and Sufyan Thauri.
According to Imam Malik and Imam Ahmad, fasting can be abandoned on account of illness or a journey and this does not break the succession; however, succession does break if the fast is abandoned without a valid reason.
Their reasoning is that the nature of the expiation fast is not obligatory as of the Ramadan fast: when that fast can be abandoned on account of an excuse, there is no reason why this cannot be.
The same is the viewpoint of Hadrat `Abdullah bin `Abbas, Hasan Basri, `Ata' bin Abi Rabah, Sa`id bin al-Masayyab, 'Amr bin Dinar, Sha`bi, Ta'us, Mujahid, Ishaq bin Rahawaiyh, Abu Ubaid and Abu Thaur.

( d ) If the man commits sexual intercourse with the wife undo zihar within the two months of fasting, according to all the Imams, the succession will break, and he will have to begin fasting anew, for he has been enjoined to fast for two successive months before he could touch the wife.

( 20 ) According to the Qur'an and the Sunnah, the third kind of expiation ( feeding the 60 poor ) can be made only by him who does not have the power to make the second expiation ( fasting for two months successively ).
The .
details of acting on this command as worked out by the jurists are as follows:
( a ) According to all the four Imams, being powerless to observe the fast means that one should either he powerless due to old age, or due to illness, or due to the reason that one may not be able to abstain from sexual intercourse for two successive months, and may become impatient at any time in the course of fasting.
The validity of aII these three excuses is confirmed by the Ahadith that have been cited in connection with the cases of Aus bin Samit Ansari and Salamah bin Sakhr Bayadi; .
However, about illness there is a little difference of opinion among the jurists.
The Hanafis say that the excuse of illness will be valid only in case there is no hope of recovery, or there is the fear that the disease may worsen on account of fasting.
The Shafe`is say that if fasting is likely to cause a severe hardship by which the man may feel the danger of its being interrupted, this excuse also can be valid.
The Malikis say that if the man strongly feels that he will be able to observe the fast in the future, he may wait till then, and if he has no such feeling, he should feed the poor.
The Hanbalis say that the apprehension that the disease will worsen by fasting is a sufficient excuse for not fasting.

( b ) Food can be given only to those poor people whose maintenance is not the obligatory responsibility of the man concerned.

( c ) The Hanafis say that food can be given to both the Muslim and the nonMuslim subjects of the Islamic State, but not to the belligerent disbelievers and to those who have been given protection.
The MMalikis, the Shafe`is and the Hanbalis say that the Muslim needy ones only can be fed.

( d ) There is full agreement that feeding implies to feed two times a day to fill.
However, there is a difference of opinion about the meaning of feeding.
The Hanafis say that it is equally valid to feed with cooked food two times a day or to give away grain sufficiient to meet the food requirements of a needy person two times a day, For the Qur'an has used the word it am, which means both to provide food and to feed.
But the Malikis, the Shafe`is and the Hanbalis do not regard feeding with cooked food as correct; they think it is necessary to give away grain.
In case grain is given, there is full agreement that the grain should be the staple food in the city or area, and all the poor people should be given it equally .

( e ) According to the Hanafis, it is also valid if one and the same poor person is fed or given food for 60 days, though it is not cornet to give him food for 60 days on one and the same day.
However, the other three schools do not think it is valid to provide food to one and the same poor man; it is necessary to give food to 60 pesons.
It is not permissible in any of the four school to provide food to 60 men at one time and to another 60 at another time.

( f ) This also is not permissible according to any of the four schools that one may fast for 30 days and then feed 30 poor ones, for two different expiations cannot be combined.
If one has to fast one should fast for two months successively, and if one has to feed, one should feed 60 poor once.

( g ) Although in connection with the cxpiation of feeding the Qur'an' does not use words to the effect that this cxpiation also should be made before the husband and the wife can touch each other yet the context demands that this restriction will apply to this third kind of expiation as well.
That is why the four Imams do not regard it as permissible that the man should go to his wife during the time the expiation of feeding is being performed.
However, the difference i6 that according to the Hanbalis the man who commits this offence, will have to feed the poor afresh, but the Hanafis show leniency, for in respect of this third expiation there-is no mention of "before the two touch each other" in the Qur'an, and this provides a basis for the concession.

Bibliography:
Hanafi Fiqh: Hadaya6; Fath al-Qadir; Badai ur-Sanat Al-Jassas Ahkam al-Qur'an.

shafe i Fiqh.' An-Nawawi, Al-Minhaj together with Sharh Mughni alMuhtaj Tafsir Kabir.

Maliki Fiqh.' Hashah ad-Dusuqi ala-sh-Sharh al-Kabir; Hedayet alMujtahid; Ibn al-'Arabi Ahkam al-Qur an.

Hanbali Fiqh.' Ibn Qadamah, Al-Mughni.

zahiryyah Fiqh: Ibn Hazm A!-Muhalla.

*12) "So that you may believe" : "So that you may adopt the attitude of a true and sincere believer.
" Obviously, the addressees of this vase arc not the pagans and polytheists, but the Muslims who had already affirmed the Faith To tell them after reciting before them a Shari'ah injunction: "This is being enjoined so that you may believe in Allah and His Messenger," clearly signifies that the conduct of the person who continues to follow the traditional law of paganism even after hearing the, Divine command would be contradictory to his profession of the Faith.
It is not the character of a believer that when Allah and His Messener have prescribed a law for him in some matter of life, he should set it aside and follow some other law of the world, or go on following his own whites and desires.

*13) Here "disbeliever" dces not imply the denier of AIlah and His Messenger, but the person who adopts the attitude and conduct of a disbeliever even after affirming faith in AIIah and His Messenger.
In other words, it means: `This, in fact, is a characteristic of the disbelievers that even after hearing the Command of Allah and His Messenger, they should go on following their own whims, and continue to practice the customs of ignorance, for a true and sincere believer would never adopt such an attitude.
The same thing has been said in Surah AI-`Imran after enjoining the imperative duty of Hajj: "And the one who disbelieves ( i.e.
does not obey this commandment ), then Allah is Self-Sufficient and does not stand in need of anyone in the worlds." ( v.
97 ) At neither place has the word "kufr" been used in the sense that whoever continues to have marital relations with the wife after zihar without making the expiation, or thinks that divorce has taken place by the mere pronouncement of zihar on the wife, or does not go to perform Hajj, in spite of the means, should be declared an apostate and disbeliever by the religious court and regarded as excommunicated by the Muslims.
But it means that in the sight of Allah such people as may reject His Commandments by word or deed, or may Ieast bother to know as to what bounds their Lord has set for them, what He has forbidden and what He has enjoined, what He has made lawful and what unlawful, arc not counted among the believers.

 

Az-Zihar and the Atonement for It Imam Ahmad recorded that Khuwaylah bint Tha`labah said, "By Allah! Allah sent down the beginning of Surat Al-Mujadilah in connection with me and `Aws bin As-Samit.
He was my husband and had grown old and difficult.
One day, he came to me and I argued with him about something and he said, out of anger, `You are like my mother's back to me.' He went out and sat with some of his people.
Then he came back and wanted to have sexual intercourse with me.
I said, `No, by the One in Whose Hand is the soul of Khuwaylah! You will not have your way with me after you said what you said, until Allah and His Messenger issue judgement about our case.' He wanted to have his way regardless of my choice and I pushed him away from me; he was an old man.' I next went to one of my neighbors and borrowed a garment from her and went to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ.
I told him what happened and kept complaining to him of the ill treatment I received from `Aws.
He said, «يَاخُوَيْلَةُ، ابْنُ عَمِّكِ شَيْخٌ كَبِيرٌ، فَاتَّقِي اللهَ فِيه» ( O Khuwaylah! Your cousin is an old man, so have Taqwa of Allah regarding him. ) By Allah! Before I departed, parts of the Qur'an were revealed about me.
Allah's Messenger ﷺ felt the hardship upon receiving the revelation as he usually did and then became relieved.
He said to me, «يَا خُوَيْلَةُ، قَدْ أَنْزَلَ اللهُ فِيكِ وَفِي صَاحِبِكِ قُرْآنًا» ( O Khuwaylah! Allah has revealed something about you and your spouse. ) He recited to me, قَدْ سَمِعَ اللَّهُ قَوْلَ الَّتِى تُجَادِلُكَ فِى زَوْجِهَا وَتَشْتَكِى إِلَى اللَّهِ وَاللَّهُ يَسْمَعُ تَحَاوُرَكُمآ إِنَّ اللَّهَ سَمِيعٌ بَصِيرٌ ( Indeed Allah has heard the statement of her that disputes with you concerning her husband, and complains to Allah.
And Allah hears the argument between you both.
Verily, Allah is All-Hearer, All-Seer. ), until, وَلِلكَـفِرِينَ عَذَابٌ أَلِيمٌ ( And for disbelievers, there is a painful torment. ) He then said to me, «مُرِيهِ فَلْيُعْتِقْ رَقَبَة» ( Command him to free a slave. ) I said, `O Allah's Messenger! He does not have any to free.' He said, «فَلْيَصُمْ شَهْرَيْنِ مُتَتَابِعَيْن» ( Let him fast for two consecutive months. ) I said, `By Allah! He is an old man and cannot fast.' He said, «فَلْيُطْعِمْ سِتِّينَ مِسْكِينًا وَسْقًا مِنْ تَمْر» ( Let him feed sixty poor people a Wasq of dates. ) I said, `O Allah's Messenger! By Allah, he does not have any of that.' He said, «فَإِنَّا سَنُعِينُهُ بِعَرَقٍ مِنْ تَمْر» ( We will help him with a basket of dates. ) I said, `And I, O Allah's Messenger! I will help him with another.' He said, «قَدْ أَصَبْتِ وَأَحْسَنْتِ فَاذْهَبِي فَتَصَدَّقِي بِهِ عَنْهُ، ثُمَّ اسْتَوْصِي بِابْنِ عَمِّكِ خَيْرًا» ( You have done a righteously good thing.
So go and give away the dates on his behalf and take care of your cousin. ) I did that."' Abu Dawud also collected this Hadith in the Book of Divorce in his Sunan, according to which her name is Khawlah bint Tha`labah.
She is also known as Khawlah bint Malik bin Tha`labah, and Khuwaylah.
All these are close to each other, and Allah knows best.
This is what is correct about the reason behind revealing this Surah.
Therefore, Allah's statement, الَّذِينَ يُظَـهِرُونَ مِنكُمْ مِّن نِّسَآئِهِمْ ( Those among you who make their wives unlawful to them by Zihar ) refers to Zihar, which is derived from Az-Zahr, meaning, the back.
During the time of Jahiliyyah, when one wanted to declare Zihar towards his wife, he would say, "To me, you are like the back of my mother." That was one way they issued divorce during that time.
Allah allowed this Ummah to pay expiation for this statement and did not render it as a divorce, contrary to the case during the time of Jahiliyyah.
Allah said, مَّا هُنَّ أُمَّهَـتِهِمْ إِنْ أُمَّهَـتُهُمْ إِلاَّ اللاَّئِى وَلَدْنَهُمْ ( they cannot be their mothers.
None can be their mothers except those who gave them birth. ) meaning, when the husband says to his wife that she is like his mother, or the back of his mother etc., she does not become his mother.
Rather his mother is she who gave birth to him.
This is why Allah said, وَإِنَّهُمْ لَيَقُولُونَ مُنكَراً مِّنَ الْقَوْلِ وَزُوراً ( And verily, they utter an ill word and a lie. ) meaning, false and sinful speech, وَإِنَّ اللَّهَ لَعَفُوٌّ غَفُورٌ ( And verily, Allah is Oft-Pardoning, Oft-Forgiving. ) meaning, `what you used to do during the time of Jahiliyyah, and what accidentally slips out of your mouth, unintentionally.' Allah's statement, وَالَّذِينَ يُظَـهِرُونَ مِن نِّسَآئِهِمْ ثُمَّ يَعُودُونَ لِمَا قَالُواْ ( And those who make unlawful to them (their wives ) by Zihar and wish to free themselves from what they uttered,) Ash-Shafi`i said, "It means to keep her for a while after the Zihar, without divorcing her, even though his is able to do so." Ahmad bin Hanbal said, "To return to having sexual relations with her or to merely intend to do so, but only after he pays the expiation mentioned in the Ayah for his statement." It has been quoted from Malik that it is the intention to have sexual relations or to keep her or actually having sexual intercourse.
Sa`id bin Jubayr said that this Ayah, ثُمَّ يَعُودُونَ لِمَا قَالُواْ ( and wish to free themselves from what they uttered, ) meaning, if they want to return to having sexual intercourse which was forbidden between them.
Al-Hasan Al-Basri said that it is to utilize her sexual organ, and he did not see any harm in doing what is less than that before paying the expiation.
`Ali bin Abi Talhah reported from Ibn `Abbas: مِّن قَبْلِ أَن يَتَمَآسَّا ( before they touch each other. ) "The `touching' refers here to sexual intercourse." Similar was said by `Ata', Az-Zuhri, Qatadah and Muqatil bin Hayyan.
Az-Zuhri added, "He is not to kiss or touch her until he pays the expiation." The Sunan compilers recorded from `Ikrimah, from Ibn `Abbas that a man said, "O Allah's Messenger! I pronounced Zihar on my wife, but then had sexual intercourse with her before I paid the expiation." The Messenger ﷺ said, «مَا حَمَلَكَ عَلى ذَلِكَ يَرْحَمُكَ الله» ( May Allah grant you His mercy, what made you do that ) He said, "I saw the adornment she was wearing shining in the moon's light." The Prophet said, «فَلَا تَقْرَبْهَا حَتْى تَفْعَلَ مَا أَمَرَكَ اللهُ عَزَّ وَجَل» ( Then do not touch her until you do what Allah the Exalted and Most Honored has ordered you to do. ) At-Tirmidhi said, "Hasan Gharib Sahih." Abu Dawud and An-Nasa'i also recorded it.
Allah said, فَتَحْرِيرُ رَقَبَةٍ ( (the penalty ) in that case is the freeing of a slave) indicating the necessity of freeing a slave before they touch each other.
This Ayah mentions any slave, not only believing servants as in the case of the expiation for ( unintentional ) killing, ذَلِكُمْ تُوعَظُونَ بِهِ ( That is an admonition to you. ) meaning, a warning to threaten you in this case. وَاللَّهُ بِمَا تَعْمَلُونَ خَبِيرٌ ( And Allah is All-Aware of what you do. ) meaning, He is All-Knower in what brings you benefit.
Allah's statement, فَمَن لَّمْ يَجِدْ فَصِيَامُ شَهْرَيْنِ مُتَتَابِعَيْنِ مِن قَبْلِ أَن يَتَمَآسَّا فَمَن لَّمْ يَسْتَطِعْ فَإِطْعَامُ سِتِّينَ مِسْكِيناً ( And he who finds not must fast two successive months before they both touch each other.
And he who is unable to do so, should feed sixty of the poor. ) is explained by the Hadiths that prescribe these punishments in this order, just as in the Hadith collected in the Two Sahihs about the man who had sexual intercourse with his wife during the day, in Ramadan.
Allah said, ذَلِكَ لِتُؤْمِنُواْ بِاللَّهِ وَرَسُولِهِ ( That is in order that you may have perfect faith in Allah and His Messenger. ) meaning, `We legislated this punishment so that you acquire this trait,' وَتِلْكَ حُدُودُ اللَّهِ ( These are the limits set by Allah. ) meaning, the things that He has forbidden, so do not transgress them, وَلِلكَـفِرِينَ عَذَابٌ أَلِيمٌ ( And for disbelievers, there is a painful torment. ) meaning, those who do not believe and do not abide by the rulings of Islamic legislation should never think they will be saved from the torment.
Rather theirs will be a painful torment in this life and the Hereafter.

( And he who findeth not (the wherewithal )) the means to free a slave, ( let him fast for two successive months before they touch one another ) before they have sexual intercourse with one another; ( and for him who is unable to do so ) i.e. to fast because he is weak ( (the penance is ) the feeding of sixty needy ones) giving each needy person half a measure ( half a sa’ ) of wheat or one measure ( sa’ ) of barley or dates. ( This ) which I have explained regarding the expiation of the Zihar, ( that ye may put trust in Allah and His messenger ) in order that you acknowledge the obligations of Allah and the wont of His Messenger. ( Such are the limits (imposed by Allah )) such are the legal rulings and obligations of Allah regarding the Zihar; ( and for disbelievers ) in the limits imposed by Allah ( is a painful doom ) whose pain will extend to their hearts. From the beginning of the surah to this point was revealed about Khawlah Bint Tha’labah Ibn Malik al-Ansariyyah and her husband Aws Ibn al-Samit, the brother of ’Ubadah Ibn al-Samit, who was angered by his wife for refusing him to sleep with her and, as a result, made sexual intercourse with her forbidden on him. But he regretted doing so, and Allah revealed how he could expiate the sin he committed. The Prophet ( pbuh ) told him: You should free a slave. Aws said: I have very little money and it costs a great deal to free a slave. The Prophet ( pbuh ) said: Then you should fast two successive months. Aws said: I cannot do so! If I do not eat once or twice a day my eyesight becomes dim; and I fear peril if I fast. The Prophet ( pbuh ) said: Then you should feed 60 needy ones. Aws said: I can not afford it. The Prophet ( pbuh ) ordered for him a measure of dates and commanded him to give it to the needy. Aws said: I do not know of anyone in Medina who is more in need of it than I. The Prophet ( pbuh ) told him to eat it and, with the help of another person, the Prophet ( pbuh ) fed 60 needy people, and this allowed Aws to go back to his wife whom he had declared unlawful for himself.

And he who finds not (the money for freeing a slave) must fast two successive months before they both touch each other. And for him who is unable to do so, he should feed sixty of Miskin (poor). That is in order that you may have perfect Faith in Allah and His Messenger. These are the limits set by Allah. And for disbelievers, there is a painful torment.

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