Kind speech and forgiveness are better than charity followed by injury. And (2:263)

Almuntakhab Fi Tafsir Alquran Alkarim

In fact, a kind word of friendliness and forgiveness is far better than benevolence followed by reproach inducing mental anguish, and Allah is Independent, Ghaniyun (Absolute) and Halimun

Tafseer Tafheem-ul-Quran by Syed Abu-al-A'la Maududi

(2:263) A kind word and forbearance is better than that charity which is followed up by insult or injury. Allah is Self-Sufficient and Forbearing. *302

Kind speech and forgiveness are better than charity followed by injury. And meaning

**302) This implies two things. First, Allah does not stand in need of anybody's charity, for He is Self-Sufficient. Secondly, He likes those people who are generous and large-hearted, but does not like frivolous and narrow-minded people, for He Himself is Generous, Clement and Forbearing. How, then Allah, Who bestows on the people the necessities of life without stint, and forgives and pardons them over and over again in spite of their errors, would like those who mar the self-respect of a person by sending repeated reminders of their charity and making pointed references to it even though they might have given only a farthing. A Tradition of the Holy Prophet says that on the Day of Resurrection, Allah will neither speak a word nor even so much as look at a person who makes pointed references to the gift he gave to some one.
 

Kind speech and forgiveness are better than charity followed by injury. And meaning in Urdu

ایک میٹھا بول اور کسی ناگوار بات پر ذرا سی چشم پوشی اُس خیرات سے بہتر ہے، جس کے پیچھے دکھ ہو اللہ بے نیاز ہے اور بردباری اُس کی صفت ہے